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Comparison. From Judgment to Feedback.

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Comparison. From Judgment to Feedback.
Let's Go Mental! — Comparison. From Judgment to Feedback.
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We are constantly told, “Don’t compare yourself to others.”

But what if comparison itself isn’t the problem?

Athletes compare playing time, rankings, teams, opportunities, skills, results, college commitments — and social media gives us even more opportunities to look at what everyone else is doing.

Comparison is natural. The difference is what you do with the information you collect.

You can use someone else’s performance as proof that you are not good enough… or you can use it as feedback.

In this episode of Let’s Go Mental, I offer a different angle on comparison: instead of using it to judge your worth, learn how to use it to identify the skills, habits, and actions that could help you close the gap between where you are and where you want to be.

Someone else’s performance can help you improve, or it can determine your worth. It is on you to decide how you use it.

Comparison can become feedback. Feedback can become a roadmap. And that roadmap can help you grow.

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Key Takeaways

  • Comparison is a natural human behavior, especially for athletes who regularly compare playing time, rankings, skills, and opportunities.
  • The problem with comparison is not the act itself, but how you interpret and use the information—as judgment of your worth or as constructive feedback.
  • Comparison can be transformed into a roadmap for improvement by identifying specific skills, habits, and actions needed to close the gap between your current state and your goals.
  • Social media increases opportunities for comparison, making it essential to consciously choose whether comparison serves as self-judgment or as feedback for growth.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is comparison itself bad?

No. Comparison is natural, especially for athletes. The difference lies in what you do with the information you collect from comparing yourself to others.

How can comparison be used positively?

Use someone else's performance as feedback to identify skills, habits, and actions that could help you improve, rather than as proof that you are not good enough.

What is the relationship between feedback and growth?

Feedback from comparison can become a roadmap that helps you grow by showing you the specific areas where you need to improve.